You have to know if they are generally speaking a positive individual

You have to know if they are generally speaking a positive individual 3. Negative Nancy’s (or Nathan’s) are not enjoyable to be around. A pessimistic one by the third date, you should have an idea of whether this person has an optimistic attitude toward life or, eek. That they have an amount of control over (like their job) over the first three dates, it’s probably safe to assume that you’d be dealing with a lot of that grumpiness and lack of proactiveness in the future if they complain a lot about things. Is that one thing you would like? My guess is no! 4. You need to know if time meshes to their relationship with yours. […]